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This is why men still pay for internet pornography

Friday, April 21st, 2017 | Thoughts

A phrase I hear a lot (because apparently, my friends are the kind of people who have those conversations) are “why would anyone pay for internet pornography when there is so much free stuff available?”

But if nobody is buying online porn anymore, someone should probably tell the industry. Because they seem to be bringing in as much revenue as ever. In fact, adult industry revenues continue to grow.

It would seem, then, that men are still paying for porn. Here is why.

There is too much free porn online

Have you ever bought a book or a course? Probably. It’s just a generic statement that everybody will have done. The question is, why, though. All the information is on the internet. There are trillions of pages out there, a lot of it valuable stuff.

So why would you spend £10 on a book when you can find it free online? Why would someone spend $1,000 on an online training programme when all of the information they need to learn any skill is already there in Google, and YouTube, and Wikipedia, and so on.

It comes down to this: have you tried finding it?

There is so much information online that we were saturated a decade ago. Finding all of the information you need, curating it together and forming it into a structure that teaches you a topic or skill is a nightmare. It’s so bad that we would rather pay an expert to do it for us.

Which is why we’re still buying books. And courses. And porn. Why waste your time searching the internet when you can just pay a company £15 to deliver it to you. People’s time is valuable and we live in the rich west. It’s a fair trade.

You get higher quality

Sure, there is loads of free stuff out there. But how much of it matches the quality of the stuff being put out by Digital Playground or

None of it. The 2005 film “Pirates” had a reported budget of over $1 million. It’s 2008 sequel, “Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge”, spend over $8 million. No two-bit operation cranking out free stuff is matching those production values.

That’s not to say that people don’t indulge in the free samples as well. But for those times when you want to eat gourmet, you have to put your hand in your pocket.

The industry has evolved

Revenue is up overall. However, admittedly, it is down for some of the traditional studios. But this matches media in general.

It used to be that bands made an album, and made all their money from the sale of that album, and toured to make sure that people bought the album.

Then digital piracy arrived, and everyone realised they could get it for free. Or pay Spotify £10 per month, which the arts see very little of. Spotify pays the record labels £7 of that money, but somewhere before reaching the artists it mysteriously goes missing.

So, now bands make very little money off the albums, but a lot of money from selling their £70-per-ticket arena tours. And because they are dependent on ticket sales, they now play all of their classics, rather than that new shit that nobody wants to listen to. The bands are still making money, and we’re getting the songs we want live. Everybody is a winner.

The music industry evolved.

So did the porn industry. It used to be that if you wanted to spend £20, you could buy a VHS of a dirty movie. Now you can spend that £20 to dictate to a Romanian woman exactly what you want her to do on a live webcam.

Sure, you might have to book in advance and pay a little extra if you want her to cover herself in yoghurt. But she will. And it’s a way better experience than watching a pre-determined movie in which the plot is “everyone loses their clothes and has sex for no reason”.

You avoid all of those horrible ads

Have you seen TV advertising? It’s awful. Nothing is relevant. I’m not looking for a new car, or to compare meerkats, or for a new brand of washing powder. In fact, it’s so bad, that the only way it can be made economical is for the TV channel to show us a solid 14 minutes of adverts per hour.

Then Netflix came along and said, “you can pay us £6 a month and make all of that nonsense go away”. And 93 million of us did because £6 a month is nothing and 14 minutes of our lives (per hour!) is loads.

We made a similar trade with the adult industry.

Trawling through free porn sites means enduring a deluge of irritating ads. I have no interest in a penis enlarger pump. I am perfectly happy my existing penis enlarger pump.

You can try and install an ad blocker. But it won’t work. The porn industry were the people who invented online video streaming in an age when it didn’t exist. They know their stuff. They know how to avoid your ad blocker even though nobody else has managed to launch a pop-up in ten years.

Who would endure that when a small amount of money makes it go away?


Men pay for internet pornography because the adult industry has continued to provide enough value to make it worth paying for. Whether it is providing higher quality, more niched, fewer ads or live webcams, they make a product which is good enough to make people pull out their wallets.

This should come as no surprise. How do bottled water companies make money when the stuff literally falls from the sky? Or newspapers continue to profit when you can get all your news from blogs and Twitter? The answer is a product that people think it worth paying for because it is better.

As long as they continue to do that, men will keep paying for it.

P.S. If my wife is reading this, you should note that this article is really about marketing and consumer behaviour, rather than watching porn.

A Billion Wicked Thoughts

Friday, November 13th, 2015 | Books

A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the Internet Tells Us About Sexual Relationships is a book by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam looking at sexuality.

This has been a subject that has traditionally been difficult to study. Sex, especially kinky sex, is a taboo to some extent in most cultures, and so people do not discuss it openly. You cannot see what porn people are purchasing by looking at the supermarket. Even on questionnaires, people might not believe it is really as anonymous as it claims to be, and will lie.

Luckily though, the past few decade have seen the triumphant rise of the internet. Now people can search for whatever they like in the privacy of their own home. They are no longer constrained by social taboos because they can turn their browser to porn mode and happily search for Vietnamese midgets shitting in a bucket without it leaving an traceable history.

So what do billions of internet logs tell us about sexuality?

Mostly that people conform to gender stereotypes.

At this point, let me say that I am going to lay out what the books says in broad terms. The caveat is that any stereotype has some outliers, possibly many. Women can like porn. Men can like romance. We are dealing with statistics only and to tar one individual with any one giant brush would be silly. Please insert this thought into the start of every sentence. Onwards…

Men like porn. For them the goal is the organum as once they have shot their seed, their job is done. They are willing to pay for it. 98% of online porn purchasers are men. In fact women buy porn so rarely that if some payment processors automatically flag any card with a woman’s name as fraud.

Women on the other hand like romance. Their brain functions as a detective agency as the book describes it. Carefully considering men because they have to deal with the consequences of getting pregnant. They want to imagine a tough alpha male who falls for them, and only for them, so they can live happily ever after.

Men experience high corrolation between mental and physical arousal. If our junk is excite, we feel excited. But women don’t have this. You can stimulate a woman’s body, but unless you stimulate her mind as well, she isn’t into it. A deeply serious example of this is rape. Women’s bodies can become aroused during being raped and some wrongly assume this implies a level of consent. It does not.

Another example is viagra. This works for men because if you can get the blood flowing through your member, you get aroused. But for women, with the decoupled physical and emotional states, it does not have the same effect.

Gay men on the whole have a male brain. It likes the same thing straight men like – watching porn, aiming for the ejaculation. It is no more interested in romance than the straight’s man brain. The only difference is that gay men are attracted to masculinity rather than femininity. Ironically this leads many gay men to be attracted to straight men, gay for pay porn stars, because shagging women is associated with being masculine.

Whether you are gay or straight could be influenced by testosterone. Interestingly, it is gay men who seem to have more of it. The average length of a straight guy’s penis is 5.99 inches, for a gay man it is 6.32 – a third of an inch longer.

Men’s sexual cues are probably imprinted during their teenage years and cannot be changed easily. So if you get off on being tied up, you’re going to feel that way your whole life. Men get aroused by unconditioned responses such as looking at breasts, but it is difficult to condition a response into them. Pavlov might be able to make a man salivate, but he can’t trigger a full erection.

This brings up interesting points for equality. For example, it has long been believed that society conditions the idea that promiscuous men are “players” whereas promiscuous women are “sluts”. But the evidence suggests this is wrong. We are naturally wired to feel this way because the most successful males (in terms of reproduction, the only scoresheet nature uses) are the ones that sleep with the most women whereas the most successfully women are those that only sleep with, and therefore get pregnant by, the most successfully socially-dominant males.

Nowadays we do not have to worry about this, of course, thanks to the wide availability of contraception. But we are hard wired to feel this way. If anything, society reduces the objectification and shaming of women by socially conditioning us away from our baser instincts. Much like how society actually reduces rape and violence, as Steven Pinker points out.

As Noreena Hertz points out in Eyes Wide Open we’re all wired to be a bit racist, and it is up to us as intelligent people to battle our biases. Similarly, we’re all a bit sexist, so we shouldn’t feel guilty for how we are made. We should still strive for a fair and equal society though, knowing we have biases to overcome.

In summary, human sexuality is incredibly complex on an individual level. Statistically, though, a lot of us are wired to like similar things, and so long may the internet be filled with porn, and romance stories. Browse whichever makes you happy.

A Billion Wicked Thoughts

Porn party

Tuesday, May 13th, 2014 | Events

When Google had its ten year old birthday party, it was hard to believe that such a name, synonymous with our every day lives, was so young.

You probably do not feel that way about Worfolk 18, my adult publishing arm. But hard as it is to believe, it has now been going ten years! A decade of supporting freedom of expression, fighting censorship and empowering women.

To celebrate we got together in Fab Cafe. Here is a photo. It is very dark for obvious reasons.


Victory for the Daily Mail

Thursday, July 25th, 2013 | Religion & Politics


As Richard Littlejohn would say, you couldn’t make it up. Credit.

More on everyone loving pornography

Saturday, June 22nd, 2013 | Religion & Politics

In April, I mentioned a Huffington Post article discussing how everyone loves pornography, even in Islamic countries where it is banned.

I thought I would share some stats from some of Worfolk Online’s sites. Here are the most popular countries for our Finnish language site:

  • 1. Finland
  • 2. Iran
  • 3. United States
  • 4. Sweden
  • 5. Estonia
  • 6. Germany
  • 7. Pakistan
  • 8. United Arab Emirates
  • 9. Turkey

Iran appears in the top nine of our English and Swedish language site too, and Saudi Arabia features in the top nine of our English site as well.

Dr Brooke Magnanti – The Sex Myth

Monday, May 6th, 2013 | Foundation, Humanism

At April, Dr Brooke Magnanti presented a talk on her book, The Sex Myth.

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Everyone loves porn

Sunday, April 14th, 2013 | Religion & Politics

Everyone loves porn. That’s a well known fact. Indeed, even in countries were porn is banned (Islamic countries, obviously), porn sites are still some of the most popular sites on the internet according to the Huffington Post, reporting on findings by Alexa.

No wonder sites have been launched to cater for such a niche.

Of course, we shouldn’t be surprised religious states are trying to act against it.

This is all part of religion’s attempt to control the basic desires of human beings, and therefore keep them down. It’s the most sick and twisted part of religion, worse than the killing, the wars, the torture of non-believers and abuse of children that all in themselves are at least on the level of the kind of thing you would call a war crime.

Luckily, as these results show, it doesn’t work. Because as good as god might be, porn is better.

Twilight of the Porn Stars

Thursday, June 28th, 2012 | Distractions, Thoughts

Louis Theroux’s latest documentary sees him revisit a documentary he did 15 years ago, about the adult industry.

It’s makes me feel very old that the documentary is now fifteen years ago, though with that recently having been screened alongside it brought back some interesting memories – for example in the original, Louis actually appeared in one of the films. He was just an extra, and kept his clothes on, but I’m sure it provides him with a great dinner party anecdote none the less.

I actually felt his blog post about it was more enlightening than the documentary itself was, mostly with him just re-visiting people he had previously seen. A lot of what I saw made sense, but only because of the added commentary I had already read from Louis’s writing (to which I would link to but I can’t remember where I read it; it wasn’t on his official blog).

The industry is described as being one in crisis as YouTube still porn sites overtake the DVD market.

This seems somewhat obviously (as if anyone buys DVDs these days, the new MacBook Pro doesn’t even come with a DVD drive) and rather than it putting them hard times, it seems more that, as with most markets, changes happen and the industry needs to adapt.

The traditional film and music industries are good example of this. Internet piracy is apparently destroying the music industry, but it’s been destroying it since people started making recordings on casette tapes and yet somehow it has survived all these decades.

But to suggest that the internet has prevented the music industry from making any money is simply nonsense. Apple, with its iTunes music store, is now the most valuable company on the planet, ahead of oil giants and banks. Spotify is looking like it will soon be posting profits and as for the film industry, last year LoveFilm sold for £200,000,000. There is clearly money to be made for this willing to adapt to the changing conditions.

The adult industry is the same. People aren’t throwing money at mail order DVDs anymore, but to say that nobody pays for porn anymore is simply untrue. Just like at the rapid expansion of who in 2006 were so profitable that they could afford to spend $14,000,000 on the historic San Francisco Armory to use as a film studio. Plenty of new opportunities have arisen too – cam sites for example is a huge opportunity to take a massive cut out of the strip club market, in the same way that live dealers on gambling sites have taken a cut out of the casino market.

When I first entered the adult market in 2004, it was all about pushing paid content sites. Now the landscape has changed – it’s now about pushing dating sites (I use the term dating sites loosely, casual sex sites would probably be a more appropriate name) because that is where consumers are spending their money these days. They’re not spending less, just as I don’t spend any less on digital music than I did on CDs, they’re just spending it in different ways and you have to change your business model to adapt to this.

If the industry wants to survive and thrive, it needs to be willing to role with the times.